Inheritance matters are often a source of serious family conflicts — especially when the senior has not left clear instructions. The absence of a will, unclear provisions, or the omission of close family members can lead to years of disputes that destroy family bonds. How can this be prevented, and why is it worth discussing the will in advance?
For many elderly people, talking about a will is associated with the fear of death. In Central European culture, the topic of inheritance is often treated as taboo. Research shows that only 15–20% of people over 65 draw up a will, even though over 60% of families experience inheritance disputes after the death of a loved one without a will.
When a senior does not leave a will, assets are divided according to the civil code. In practice, this often means splitting property among several heirs, leading to co-ownership — one of the biggest sources of family disputes. A will allows the senior to independently decide who receives what and to what extent.
The key is sensitivity and no financial pressure. The conversation should begin with concern for the senior’s security and legal order, not the assets themselves. Helpful phrases include: “We would like to know your wishes so we can respect them” or “We want to avoid a situation where your grandchildren would argue.” It is important that the senior feels their voice is the most important.
The most popular forms of wills in Poland are the handwritten (holographic) will and the notarial will. The notarial will provides greater legal certainty and is harder to challenge. In many EU countries — such as Germany, Czech Republic, or Slovakia — similar principles apply, though details vary depending on local inheritance law.
Even if a senior draws up a will, the law in most EU countries provides for forced heirship — a minimum inheritance share for the closest family members (spouse, children, parents). Understanding these rules helps avoid disappointments and conflicts after the will is opened.
We know that legal and financial matters can be overwhelming. At OPK.CARE, we help families find not only the right care but also support with organizational and legal issues. We encourage open conversations and planning for the future with respect for the senior’s wishes.
April 3, 2026
